Baik bagi kita, belum tentu baik bagi orang lain...

Suatu ketika hiduplah 2 makhluk bersahabat, seekor kera dan ikan. Sang kera hidup di atas sebatang pohon yang tumbuh di pinggir sungai, tempat hidup si ikan. Mereka sering ngobrol & bertukar. Sungguh persahabatan yang indah.

Suatu saat, kera melihat sesuatu di kejauhan. Ya ! Banjir yg akan menerjang tempat tinggal mereka !

Sang kera segera berteriak, “Hoi ikan. Dimana kamu ?”

“Aku disini”.

“Cepat kemari… Banjir bandang melanda dari hulu sungai sana. Cepat ikut aku. Biar kuselamatkan & kuamankan di puncak dahan tertinggi pohon ini”.

“Tetapi…”

“Sudahlah ! Tidak ada waktu untuk berdebat. Yang terpenting aman”.

Tidak lama kemudian, banjir bandang mendera semua benda di permukaan rendah di seputar sungai 1 jam lamanya.

Akhirnya banjir surut dan selama itu pula kera memeluk erat ikan sahabatnya.

Setelah reda, sang kera melompat kembali ke bawah, hendak mengembalikan sang ikan ke sungai.

“Hai ikan, bangun !” serunya. Tetapi ikan tetap diam, "Ikan… Ikan… bangunlah. Banjir sudah berlalu. “IKAN. IKAN !” Kera berseru keras.

Sadarlah dia dan menangis meraung-raung bahwa ikan telah mati akibat pelukannya.

Seringkali dalam hidup ini, kita gegabah menentukan yang terbaik bagi orang lain. Apa yang menurut kita baik, belum tentu baik bagi orang lain. Menolong jika dilakukan dengan cara yang keliru justru akan menghancurkan yang ditolong.

My Mom is My Hero and My Queen

Hug

just want to say, that i love this picture and the quotes. i mean, even a single 'good morning' text can change your day, so what about a hug ? a hug can calm you down, make you feel calm, happy, warm, and the best is, you know there's someone who always being there for you and love you.

We're All The Same

look at these picture, this is so cute right? an animal love. even animal can express their love with each other. then why we can't do the same things? look at that dog and horse, even they aren't the same species, but they can love each other. why do human don't do the same? just stop being racism, like you're black and i'm white, you're poor and i'm rich, you're ugly and i'm beautiful. oh God, please, let me remind you that inside we're all the same. so, STOP BEING RACISM AND TREAT OTHERS LIKE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.

I want a Tattoo

hello bloggers, can i just scream that i want a TATTOO so badly!! want it till i feel jealous to see a girl with a cute tattoo on her body. damn, i really want it, but fyi, i'm so afraid of hypodermic needle. hiks T_T

why i want a tattoo? well, for me, it's cute and i'd have a quote tattoo or a mini one. not the big one. the cute one. but, well, my father won't let me have one while he has a dragon tattoo at his body.hey dad, why can you has that tattoo and you won't let me have one? just a tiny cute little tattoo. i don't even want a tattoo over my body. just a little bit. like this :

they look so cute isn't it? oh daddy, please let me have one. and well, believe it or not, i'm gonna have one. must must must. i desperately want to has a tattoo since when i'm at high school, but again, school rules, guys. and now after i went to college and no rules about tattoo, i'm gonna have one. i just need to improve my courage to face the pain and the hypodermic needle. wish i can have one soon.

Back to Capital City

hola bloggers, finally, i'm back again after few month absence. hehe, pardon me, but i really dont wana touch my laptop during holiday. cause i really want to enjoy my time when holiday like hangout, vacation, family time and so much more and i dont wanna be anti social. and here i am, back to capital city again, leaving my hometown, start my college life again. geez, holiday is really OVER!

Hometown Stories

Hola guys, i spend really great time at my hometown till i forget to open my blog. sigh~ i'm so happy and i don't realize that i'll go back to Jakarta in next 2 weeks. i don't wanna leave my home actually. too much storie to tell at my hometown. i really wish i can write it my blog, but i'm too busy to write it all. actually, not that working thing, but that 'busy' that i hang out all day, sleeping all day. and many more. haha. this is heaven!!!!

Hometown!!!!

first of all, i want to inform that i'm at my hometown now. hometown!!!!! with family around me. couldn't be happy more. this is the third day i'm at my hometown actually. this is the first time i open my laptop since i'm back to my hometown. FYI, my laptop has its own  name too. it's AZZY. why i named it like that ? cause my laptop brand is ASUS and it sounds weird if i named it ASSY isn't it ? so i change it into AZZY.

well, back to my hometown story, i had sushi as my dinner, 2 nights in a row. oke mom, just because i'm a big fan of sushi, doesn't mean sushi for 2 nights in a row too. haha. happy? of course. why not ?
first, i can eat my favorite sushi A LOT!! one thing that i never eat at Jakarta cause the price is so ugh, expensive. i can't afford it with my pocket money, well, actually i can, but yeah, seems like i can't let my money go with that. haha, reckon in the money that i can use to buy 3 or 4 times food at food stall. hard choice isn't it. that's why, when i back to my hometown, my first target is SUSHI!!

anyway, i've cough now, and sore throat. argh, don't know where all of this comes from. and now i lost my voice and hardly can speak. i just use some sign language or writing to let them know what i want to say and what i want to do. huft, kinda disturbing, not kinda anymore, but REALLY REALLY DISTURBING!! guess you all know how it feels when you can't talk and just write and use sign language to communicate with others.

Cemara Come To Stay Overnight At My Place

hOla, yesterday, 26 Jue 2013, Cemara or let's just call her Cem", from my The Bacots friends, come to stay overnight at mine. she said, she feel lonely living at her boarding house alone, and because i'm a good and kind hearted person, ehem... i welcome her, with great pleasure. haha

so, here we are, laughing at each others, midnight snack, late dinner, early breakfast, chatting everywhere, talking everywhere, sleep like a pig, snoring and so much more, but we do have so much fun. we also play online games together, like, we're sitting together, side to side, with our own laptop, and play that games, stupid enough huh, while we're together and what we do are playing online games, but luckily we just play that for about 15 minutes. and after that, we start to talk to each other again and the craziness begin.

i had my late dinner at Pisang Ijo, near my boarding house. this bistro specialization is their Es Pisang Ijo. Es Pisang Ijo is a banana who covered with green layer, which i don't really know what is it, and it surrounded by ice with santan and a little bit strawberry sauce. that's the dessert i ate actually, my main course is Spaghetti Bolognaise and it's nyummy. oh my God, just thinking about it already make my stomach growls.

Here's the photo :

Es Pisang Ijo

Spaghetti Bolognaise

after dinner, we went to my boarding house and the rest is like what i said, the craziness begin.
we did took some photos too ^^

For Your Information

Hello guys, ladies and gentleman, to anyone who read my blog, i just want you to know...
My name is Rosabel Andini. My family name is Chandra or Chen in Chinese. that's why i use Rosabel Chen. don't get confuse with that. i'm Asian, and for more specific, i am Indonesian. Indonesia is a country where Bali located. why i use Bali ? cause most people don't know where is Indonesia. so, i'd like to tell you where it is :)

The red mark one is Indonesia, above Australia 

In Indonesia, we speak Indonesian language. Indonesian language almost like Melayu at Malaysia. sometimes i use Indonesian to write at my Blog and sometimes i use English. so, please understand if my English isn't very good. I'm still learning English and hope i can speak English fluently.

For more specific, i was born at Medan, North Sumatra. and now i live at Jakarta, the capital city of Indonesia. i move to capital city because i studying at Jakarta now. i enter college at Jakarta cause i think that capital city is more available for job vacany, and my target is to work at foreign company, that's why i thought my chance is bigger if i was at capital city.

oh and, i'm Chinese. it means that my ancestor was from China and they move to Indonesia. why did they move here? well, i don't know. maybe i should read my history book again. haha.

okay, maybe that's the information i want you guys to know bout me.
i'll write another information again if you need to know other things.
thanks for reading.
XOXO